Why I Can't Stop Watching Reality TV
It's evening. I'm on the couch. I'm watching strangers on a yacht scream at each other about things that have nothing to do with me.
I've never met these people. I never will. And yet here I am, three episodes deep, fully invested in whether someone gets fired this episode.
I used to think this was just how I unwind. Then I noticed something.
The nights I reach for it hardest aren't the relaxed...
I Stopped Waiting to Be Asked
Four years into a leadership team, and I still hadn’t figured out the one thing everyone actually wanted from me.
The role came with real responsibility, leading parts of the program, and an open invitation for feedback on how I led.
I thought I was good at it. Fair. Compassionate. Collaborative.
That was the problem.
I learned I was leaving people confused, frustrated, and uninspired.
I though...
You’re Not Lying About What You Want. You’re Just Not Doing It.
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I’m working with a team right now, and there’s one person I keep coming back to.
Every conversation, they say the right things. “I want more partnership.” “I want us to work as a team.” “I want better flow.”
Then a meeting starts.
They interrupt before anyone finishes a thought. They shoot down ideas before considering them. They lecture the room on how things “should” go. When someone pushes...
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